Roadside memorial for Livingston "Liv" Pangburn, age 22
A heartfelt tribute has appeared on the site of the terrible truck vs bicycle accident that took the life of a promising 22 year old on Sunday late afternoon just off the entry to Amherst College on always busy Rt 9, probably made more so by Amherst College commencement functions that same day.
I could tell by the original response of the first Amherst police officer on the scene that it was bad ... really bad.
So I continued to send out live updates as I heard them over the scanner and got to the scene less than an hour after the incident to (carefully)
photograph the intensive investigation.
By 7:42 p. m. when I was first to publish (beyond simple updates on Twitter) the awful news, I could not get two reliable sources to confirm the accident was indeed fatal, so I held off on that ever so final piece of information. Even though I was convinced of the awful truth.
Much later that night MassLive.com covered the story and early next morning the Memorial Day print edition of the Daily Hampshire Gazette had it on the front page. But both of them had used the wrong name and gender for the victim based on information supplied by the District Attorney's office, normally what you consider a "reliable source."
Since the DAs office is considered ultra reliable and since the information they were providing was after hours "breaking news," safe to say neither of the established mainstream media outlets bothered to corroborate the name of the victim with a second source.
Because friends and family of Livingston "Liv" Pangburn would most certainly would have told them about how he would wish to be remembered.
Kind of like the epic mistake made by too many mainstream media outlets covering the massacre at Sandy Hook Elementary School, where early widely circulated reports misidentified the brother as the shooter.
Being first has always been an important motivator for journalists -- especially now with the ability for instant online publication.
Being right, however, trumps it every time.
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In an email to the entire Hampshire College community yesterday Presdient Jonathan Lash avoided pronouns altogether:
"It is with deep sadness I must let the community know that Hampshire student Livingston Pangburn, 11F, died in a bicycling accident in the town of Amherst on Sunday. Counseling Services will hold walk in hours tomorrow Tuesday May 28 from 3:00 - 5:00 p.m. for those needing support. We will honor Liv's memory in the fall, when students return to campus."
I'm also told by a Hampshire College professor:
"Hampshire academic records now allow students not only to choose
their names (e.g. if they prefer a nickname to their full name
etc.) but also include a preferred pronoun: that way, the teacher
or administrator does not have to guess, or student does not have
to assume the burden of correcting them etc."